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Melisa's avatar

This is such a beautiful piece! Thank you for letting us into your process.

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Julia Tausch's avatar

I loved learning more about how you think about clothes, and I love seeing your daily looks!

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Karmela Padavic Callaghan's avatar

Thank you Julia! I appreciate you reading

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Apoorva Sripathi's avatar

LOVED! usually i save your newsletters to drink in along with my morning coffee but this, now, today, couldn't resist savouring in one go!

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Steph from food/play/food's avatar

Loved this. Also made me realised I think I prob dress like a baked potato most of the time nowadays ! 🥔

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Karmela Padavic Callaghan's avatar

Oh, ok, but that sounds very comfortable

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Steph from food/play/food's avatar

It really is!

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Jack Whalen's avatar

this was wonderful, your whole story

and this:

*I was trained as a theorist so never had a real need or an excuse to wear a lab coat. If anything, my older colleagues preferred embodying the image of a scientist so consumed by work that they forget to tie their shoes or put on a clean sweater. The symbol of their status was not the lab coat, but the ability to forgo that and many other conventions of respectable dressing.*

Most of my colleague in the sociology department at U of Oregon… (in)famous as the most marxist department in the country (more than a bit exaggerated tbh), this absolutely was the un-uniform!

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Teresa Finney's avatar

HOOKED from the very first line.

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Karmela Padavic Callaghan's avatar

Thank you!!

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Rebecca Thimmesch's avatar

Love love love this one—just so much

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Millicent Souris's avatar

This writing, brain, all of it, is just incredible!

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Karmela Padavic Callaghan's avatar

Oh, thank you so much, that's really flattering!

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Alicia Kennedy's avatar

ADORE this piece!

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Karmela Padavic Callaghan's avatar

Thank you!!

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meghna rao's avatar

lovely. i was recently somewhere a little different, thinking about what a good, fluent cook my mom is and how hard it is for me to go off recipe, and how i think that’s a real loss or a deskilling of sorts. obviously i traded cooking fluency in for a lot more freedom than she had, and i think this puts to words a more positive spin on what recipes can provide, a way to do things you’re not spending all day and night with.

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Karmela Padavic Callaghan's avatar

Thank you for reading! That trade off between freedom and being meticulously skill is interesting, I do worry that there are traditional skills I’ll never learn or pass on because of how I cook. But I guess I like to think I’m still influenced by it all, and that some type of change or transformation isn’t always bad

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